Don’t Talk Yourself Out Of Approaching Her
Approaching a woman you don’t know can be a very difficult thing to do if this is something you don’t do on a regular basis. It’s natural to think of the worst possible scenarios of what could happen if you introduce yourself to a woman waiting for her coffee at Starbucks or a cocktail at a bar. Perhaps she would dash her beverage in your face, frown, and not respond at all? The possibilities are endless.
What if I told you things like this rarely happened? Would that change your behavior the next time you see a beautiful woman? I recently read an article about how San Francisco is the worst place for single woman. The author describes the dating scene as a place where men rarely approach her to strike up conversations compared to other major US cities.
I can’t comment on whether she’s attractive or not but I have heard this same sentiment from a lot of woman I meet in the Bay Area. If you are still reading this blog post, this should be music to your ears. Below I will dive deeper into why you should approach any woman you find attractive:
- She May Find You Attractive: This happened to all of us at some point in our life where we are somewhere minding our own business and out of nowhere we caught eye contact with someone we found very attractive that gave us a feeling that they’re into us. As we continue to go our separate ways, we could only wish that we could move back the hands of time and strike that conversation. Always strike when the iron is hot. Michael Jordan didn’t make all of his shots but he kept shooting. You may not win the championship, but you’ll always be competitive enough to be in the game.
- She May Be Everything plus More: Usually when we meet woman we don’t know, our expectations tend to be very low because we don’t like to be disappointed. However, when we do meet that person that just blows us away, we tend to be pleasantly surprised whether she makes a good breakfast in bed or fucks your brains out. This Pandora box can only be opened if you’re putting yourself out there.
- Most Woman Aren’t Going To Approach You: If you’re a part of that 5% population where woman approach you asking for your telephone number, I envy you. For the majority of guys like us, we have to go out of our way to get what we want and that requires approaching woman. As the saying goes, if you don’t hunt, you don’t eat and trust me, a buffalo is not begging to be your meal.
Unless you live in China, there should be a lot more woman than men in your geographical location. With so many different ethnic groups to choose from, why hold yourself back? You may be surprised by who’s willing to date you if you just say hello and get to know her.